"Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength"

I have always feared hurting someone unknowingly. A certain word or action that I have done could have scarred or hurt someone around me. I like those whom are opinionated and speak out on what they believe in. However, there comes a point when their words turn to weapons and hurt people. There should always be respect for other's around you and one should always think before they speak. Some people throw judgement bombs and act above everyone and would never stop to think that people are the way they are because of certain events and individuals in their lives. Someone could be cold and distant because they've been hurt by those they loved. Another person could be extremely social and traveling all year round because they simply hate coming back home to where things are always sad and gloomy. 


The point is, don't be too quick to judge. 


Sometimes people can be so hurtful. A women once told me a story that I believe is a perfect example of how people's words can hurt. She was dieting all her life to be thin and then once she got pregnant she (naturally) gained weight. She told me how shocked she was with people's harshness. Someone would tell her "I didn't recognize you because of how fat you became!" and another would see her shopping in a store and would tell her "Why are you here? I think you should be in the plus size section." My question is: Why? Why are people unkind? Why do they enjoy throwing those negative remarks around?    I simply go by the saying that say's "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!" 


Another story that reminded of people's rudeness was of a young girl at the age of fifteen. She was self conscious and was struggling in term's of being confident. A girl in her class simply threw a remark and walked away, but the girl (years later) never forgot it. She told her "How come you didn't turn out pretty like the rest of your family?" These examples are just a few from many that any individual can personally relate to when thinking of disrespectful individuals and harmful words. It is not just when it comes to personal appearance but anything from personality, education, lifestyle and so on. People are harsh when it comes to anything.  


The point is, be kind. 

خواطر

 التـوبـه" - كلمه دائما تجذبني بقوتها ... ما هي التوبه؟" 

التوبه هي الرجوع الى صراط الله المستقيم.. عندما يلاحظ شخص ما عيبا آو خطآ في نمط حياته آو آسلوبه و يقرر آن لا يكرره مرة آخرى

التوبه قد تكون لآمور غير دينيه آيضا .. من الممكن اتخاذ قرار بآن تآكل آكلات صحيه و آن لا تآكل الوجبات السريعه آو بآن تقف عن التدخين آو غيره من آلامور

ليس هناك شخص خالي من الآخطاء آو العيوب.. و لكن ما آجمل آن يلاحظ الشخص تلك العيوب و لا يكررها بعد ذلك 

من آجل آن تتوب فعليك باتخاذ القرار للاقلاع و بعد ذلك العزم في الالتزام

آسماء الله الحسنى تدل على صفات الله الجميله.. منهم الغفور و الرحيم .. فعلا الله يغفر لنا و يرحمنا و يحب عباده. .. يستقبل توباتنا في آي وقت .. اذا اخطآنا مره آو مرتين آو ثلاثه فالله دائما مع عباده و يتقبل توباتنا

لقد شاهدت برنامج ديني بعنوان "التوبه الى الله" و من خلال كلام الشيخ.. جمله شدتني بقوه 

قال : مشكلة عصرنا اليوم ان الناس يذنبون و يخطؤون و ينسوا شيء آساسي و هو التوبه.. و البعض يتوب باللسان و ليس بالقلب

نلهو برفاهيات الدنيا و ننسى بآن الدنيا مجرد اختبار من الله سبحانه و تعالى.. من نجح  ثوابه الجنه باذن الله و من خسر  يشعر بمرارة اختياراته  و الندم و مصيره عذاب النار 

الموت لا يترك آحدا .. غني آو فقير آو كبير آو صغير .. لا نعرف متى يكتب لنا الموت فآدعي ربي آن يرزقني و يرزقكم بحسن الخاتمه

 فهذه المدونه تذكار لي و لكم بان علينا ان ننسى متعة الدنيا و نعمل لآخرتنا و يوم الحساب 

تخيل بآن يوم البعث قد وصل .. آو يومك على وشك الوصول.. فهل لديك حسنات كافيه لدخول الجنه ؟ هل تبت من ذنوبك و آخطاءك؟  هل تلك الرفاهيات السطحيه ستنفعك عندما تتحاسب عند الله سبحانه و تعالى؟  

آنهي هذي المدونه بكلام الله سبحانه و تعالى.. فلا يوجد آجمل من كلامه 

"يا أيها الذين أمنوا توبوا إلى الله توبة نصوحا عسى ربكم أن يكفر عنكم سيئاتكم ويدخلكم جنات تجرى من تحتها الأنهار "  

اللهم اجعل الجنة مثوانا وقنا عذاب النار

*Note: I have always been bilingual (spoke English and Arabic) and therefore my Arabic (unfortunately) is  slightly weak.. so please excuse the simplicity of my words.. I'm trying :p