Saturday, 17 September 2011

That is so 'gay' !

It was three years ago, my sister and I were in the MAC cosmetic store in City Centre and we were looking at the new collection of eye shadows, lipsticks, foundations and bronzers. We were swimming in a sea of makeup and loving the swim!


The store wasn't filled, it was just us and another girl. The man working in the store has become familiar with our faces, we were proud regulars. We rummaged through the products when we noticed a peculiar scene. A quite handsome man in a thobe stood by the door of the store and waved at the salesperson. The salesperson responded by walking to the cashier desk, taking a mac bag filled with makeup and giving him the bag. The man gave him money and chatted with the salesperson for a while and left.
We were surprised by what had happened in front of us.




After seeing that scene, the man walked away into the busy corridors of the mall and the salesperson came back to help us. My sister and I couldn't help but ask about what we just saw and when the very feminine (to say the least) salesperson replied he said "he's a friend of mine, too shy to buy makeup so publicly!" He went on shocking us by saying "he's one of hundreds. Most of our sales come from males."





The issue of homosexuality at times could be 'medical' but most times it's just psychological. The reasons are countless, it could be that the man was raised by women and had no male role model around him or was abused as a child, the list goes on.. However, no one can deny that in recent years the number of homosexuals has increased drastically and sadly to say in both sexes, men and women. It saddens me to see how some people 'accept' the idea of homosexuality between the two genders. In terms of females, society has accepted 'lesbians' with open arms. "A party is not complete without it's set of 'lesbians' " a friend commented once.  They are everywhere; schools, parties, malls, universities. They are our friends, friends of friends, relatives and so on. And most of these homosexuals, men and women, are married.




...And last summer in vacation I went to a MAC store (of course!) and I saw the very same salesperson. He recognized me at once and we chatted for a while. He said he missed Qatar like crazy and that he had so many Qatari boyfriends and they were so nice to him. They spoiled him he said. After those words, I just smiled and said that it was getting late and I had to go. I didn't seem that uncomfortable to him, but I truly was. He seemed so confident with his homosexuality. While, each word he said made me more disgusted by that segment of our society. They spoiled him? boyfriend(s) with an s? How many boyfriend were there?


This is just one story out of hundreds that I have either seen or heard. Most are not appropriate enough to even publish! And as the years continue I see the problem growing more and more and people are just simply accepting it. What do you guys think, what are some solutions for such a problem?

9 comments:

  1. They should let all guys go thro a yr in the military or something like that to make them more manly.

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  2. in my opinion these issues should be solved in the following 4 ways:
    1- Government interference, so when such person is found, he either go to jail or military to fix him up.
    2- Religion, as if anyone with commitment to religion would never do such act.
    3- Parents, the way you raise your kids will affect their life.
    4-Friends, cause they effect on your life like no one else.

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  3. ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ... they are everywhere !

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  4. the last part is so shocking,, mentioning boyfriends!!
    the most important reasons for such homosexuality is that:
    there is no "waz3 deeni' neither "waz3 osari" and a huge reason is "sexual abuse"

    allahomma 3afena westir 3laina

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  5. Anonymous No. 1 :p - I think the military idea is pretty good!

    Mooli - Your points are all good. Especially about friends, friends can make u or brake u unfortunately. Especially the influential years in highscool.

    anonymous no 2 :p - that is SO true.

    Rodhaa - Yeah i was shocked too!! And ur 100% right.. allah ystr 3l jmee3 enshalla... p.s. took a look at ur blog, beautiful style mashalla ;D

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  6. This is my favorite post so far, its a controversial issue obviously since you actually do have the numbers of gays and lezzies on the rise & because i saw a couple this summer

    Homosexuality has always been around ever since, but apparently today we hear more of it because of how fast information travels around.


    the only reason why homosexuality is spreading is because we are not complying the islamic sharia law. sadly, our downfall happened a couple of hundred years ago when islamic sharia was abandoned. NOTE: Look what happened to قوم لوط this is how serious this issue is

    Mooli: sounds good but where do you want to find khaleejies that would have to go to military, most just sleep around and dont want to work

    good post ;)

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  7. This is way just so sad ! where have all the real men gone ?!!
    plaease share the rest of your stories ! i'm enjoying every single post :D


    Al-Zaina

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  8. im so agreeing with Mooli's solutions
    allah yaster 3lena ya rub

    Thank you Far7a for this amazing blog spot
    Huge Fane :)

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  9. YBO
    Your right! and 8om lo6 and any tashbeeh to them is forbidden and now fashion is telling us to be like them in so many ways. It's a shame.

    Al-Zaina
    The 'real' men.. Hmm.. I have no idea! lol the term 'manly' has been misinterpreted for years..

    It's Cherry
    Walaw 7beebti thank you for the post <3

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